When I say consuming, I mean mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, just everything." She also said his drinking made her uncomfortable, that he became obsessive and that he put her in "dangerous situations where was not OK."Īnd Vucekovich may not have been the only one. "He kind of captivates you and while being charming, he’s grooming you for these things that are darker and heavier and consuming. "He quickly grooms you in the relationship," she told the paper.
Hammer was also manipulative, overwhelming her with charm before coercing her into doing things she wasn't comfortable with. That's not what took an emotional toll, though. he says, 'I want to take a bite out of you.' If I had a little cut on my hand, he’d like suck it or lick it. He talked about eating Vucekovich, too, she says: "He said to me he wants to break my rib and barbecue and eat it. We should actually be talking about abuse But then Courtney Vucekovich, the founder of a beauty and photography app called Flashd and Hammer's ex-girlfriend, spoke to Page Six on Thursday, and if I didn't already understand that these DMs were not about cannibalism as much as they were about abuse, I certainly did after reading about her experiences. did you see the details in the other DMs? The ones about "raping on the floor with a knife against "? And how he felt like a god when she was "crying and screaming" while he stood over her? At first, I dismissed that-and frankly, all of this-as a kink that I didn't need to know more about. Oh, and he claims he's "cut the heart out of a living animal before and eaten it while still warm," which I guess was meant to add a dash of vérité? In another DM (not pictured), he floats the idea of cutting off one of her toes so he could "keep it pocket" because he wanted to always have a piece of her "in possession."īut. In one DM, someone who appears to be Hammer says, "thinking of holding heart in hand and controlling when it beats" gets him "so hard," that he's "100% a cannibal" and that he wants to eat her. The DMs literally say, "I am 100% a cannibal" you guys 👀 eating people.īut don't worry, we get there quite quickly. So, gross and salacious, yes, but not, you know.
Now, at first, this seemed to be about Hammer requesting they fly out to see him then ghosting them, or demanding they not have sex with anyone else while not being honest about all the people he was having sex with, or asking them to introduce him to other girls who might want to sleep with him. When Effie posted about her experience with Hammer last week, it sparked a flood of comments from other women who he'd treated the same way. He calls them "kittens" (ugh) and he has super kinky sex with them.
From what I can tell based on the account's Story Highlights, Effie is claiming the actor has a rotating cast of women who he'd hook up with when he was in their cities despite, yes, being married at the time. The story originated with an anonymous Instagram account. (Though before we go on, please note that none of this information has been independently verified, and in fact, Hammer has denied everything, calling the rumours "vicious and spurious online attacks" and "bullshit claims.") There's clearly a lot to unpack here, so let's start with how this information even became public. But I've seen far more of the "Armie Hammer might be a cannibal" take than thoughtful pieces about abuse, and I honestly wonder if where the story broke had something to do with that framing. But here's the thing: disturbing as that part of this story may be, it's actually not nearly as bad as the allegations of grooming, controlling and manipulative behaviour, pushing the boundaries of consent and other examples of intimate partner violence.
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